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Soft Ghosting Is The Latest Dating Trend To Haunt Us

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The world of online dating is a tough one, and it’s brought along its fair share of horrible dating trends. From catfishing to ghosting, we can affirm that any time an attempt at a relationship isn’t straightforward and honest, it sucks. Despite the infinite failed dates, it appears dating apps are here to stay. Over a quarter of adults of all ages have used online dating, with 57 million people around the world using Tinder alone. Here to add to your list of awful dating trend rejections is the latest «soft ghosting.»

What Is Soft Ghosting?

There’s a good chance you’ve already experienced «soft ghosting» and did not know it. This trend refers to when you have sent a long, thought out (and most likely discussed with your friends) message on Facebook or Instagram, only to get a like in response. Not even a one word response- but a LIKE. Never has a «heart» response hurt so bad!

woman wearing a Facebook shirt, confused by soft ghosting message.

Clarifying The Confusion Of Soft Ghosting

It can feel both demoralizing and confusing when someone responds with a heart but no genuine response. You may start to have thoughts swirling in your head. «Maybe this person was busy in the moment! He or she probably forgot to respond! Or what if he was being kidnapped and couldn’t respond!!» Sorry honey, but you need to stop kidding yourself.

woman asking for advice from a friend.

Soft ghosting is complicated because it’s not as straightforward as its harsher relative, «ghosting.» The person supposedly has at least SOME decency to put in the oh-so-agonizing effort of double tapping to like. But it may make you think they do not want to end the conversation. Or worse, have to ponder the question of, who sent the last official message?

Don’t Jump To Conclusions

This is much easier said than done. However, you should always give some proper time to allow someone to respond, especially if you did send a very long message. Sometimes people need some «me-time» away from social apps, and one should one hundred percent respect that.

If you think the conversation truly has not ended, or you want to continue talking, you can always send a follow up message. In the age of digital technology, there truly are no rules about «the perfect time» to send a message. (Those norms are soooo old school). However, if you do send another message and get a feeble or nonexistent response, you should consider, do you truly want to date someone that has minimal engagement? It can be a clear early sign of when to leave someone and look for better, more compatible fish in the sea.

funny meme about other fish in the sea.

Stop The Soft Ghosting In Its Tracks

If you still have not met the person, or don’t have plans for a new date, try sending some specific details about a future meet up. If he or she agrees, voila! Simply a lack of communication, your soft ghosting crisis has been averted! On the other hand, if you get zero response... It’s official. The soft ghosting has turned full on Casper mode (just in time for Halloween, how convenient).

Just remember, don’t beat yourself up for things not working out. This was a clear, truly «them not you» problem, and there is bound to be a winner in the bunch!

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Dating: 5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

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Modern dating is hard. Technology has influenced our interactions and relationships, and became a big deal when it comes to dating. I mean, you meet a guy, you exchange Instagrams, then you go home and start getting to know the person through their posts.

Millennials give so much importance to social media in relationships. However, this dependence created an emotional analysis of signs. you ask yourself »Why was he online and didn’t reply? Why did he leave me on read? why are other girls liking their posts? etc…»

Nowadays, studies prove that marriage rates are plummeting, and part of that, is due to uncertainty about feelings. If you don’t know where you stand with a guy, that’s probably because he is not into you. Here are some signs to keep in mind.

Mixed Signals

If a guy sends you mixed signals about their feeling, then probably they don’t really want you. Several men confessed that when they are not sure about a girl, they try to keep sending her mixed signals until she finally walks away on her own…Be careful of this type of guys because they can keep you hanging for a long time. While they are enjoying their life, you are just sitting there wondering if they actually love you or not.

Love Bombing

This the complete opposite of the previous one. When a guy uses this technique, it makes you feel valued and special. They shower you with compliments, love, and affection. You feel like they really want to be dating you. Then, all of sudden, they are gone. You wonder where did you go wrong, but it’s really not you, it’s them. They enjoy seeing you need them, and becoming attached to them. You start thinking to yourself that this could be ‘love at first sight’ but, it almost never is. These guys are not willing to commit. Next!

Young asian woman covering her face sitting on a bed with sadness

Avoids Defining the Relationship

When it comes to knowing what the two of you are, there is no better way than asking. However, if he shows little interest in knowing, or considers that it’s not important to label it, then chances are he is confused about you. If you are always wondering , then you need a reality check. A man who’s interested doesn’t leave you wondering. It’s as simple as that.

More Physical than Emotional

Physical attraction is very important in a relationship, but it’s not everything. If your guy is open about that but not his emotions, then that’s one big red flag. He is definitely not that into you if he doesn’t open up to you, share his feelings, and show interest in understanding yours. Moreover, a guy who likes you will let you in and will only hangout with you when it works for him.

He Doesn’t Make Effort

Finally, this is for me the most important sign. We often try to find excuses to why men don’t text us first. We say »Oh, he must-ve had a bad day.» Although that might be true in some cases, a man who cares about your won’t go a week without a text/call/message. So, if you are always the one making the first move, you should reconsider where you stand with that guy.

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Get Rid of Dandruff Naturally With These 3 Home Remedies

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Dandruff is very annoying and sometimes, even embarrassing. This naturally-caused problem affects over 50% of people, according to recent findings. Causes of dandruff vary, and it could be for hormonal reasons as well as external ones. For example, if you stress very much then your body responds with dandruff. sometimes, even changing your shampoo or conditioner can cause scalp irritation, and consequently, dandruff will appear.

RevistaCachet is letting you know that there are some simple, natural home remedies to get rid of dandruff. Check them out!

Use Coconut Oil

Coconut oil is well-known for it’s multiple health benefits. It’s good for skin, for hair and even for food. It helps improve skin hydration and prevent dryness, which cause dandruff. This oil is also used to cure Eczema and reduces inflammation and itching. It should really always be on your counter just in case!

Apply Tea Tree Oil

Used in the past to treat several types of illness. Tea tree oil comes from a plant called Melaleuca alternifolia, and is known to have powerful anti-microbial and anti-inflammatory properties. In fact, it’s completely effective at fighting the specific strain of fungus that can cause both seborrheic dermatitis and dandruff. Start by applying few drops of tea tree to your regular shampoo, because oil directly on the scalp can cause inflammation or rashes.

Aloe vera gel

Aloe vera is a rich source of vitamins, which are beneficial in promoting healthy and shiny hair. The anti bacterial benefits of aloe vera help to treat clogged hair follicles and also facilitate hair growth. The enzymes present in aloe vera offer deep cleansing benefits for our scalp. They also help eliminate dead skin cells and dandruff .The anti inflammatory properties of aloe vera also help in healing the damage caused to scalp by constant scratching.

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Awesome Ideas For A Girls’ Night In This Fall

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Just because summer is gone and the pools are closed, doesn’t mean you can’t have some relaxing fun with your gal pals. If you want to truly get in the fall spirit for a girls’ night in, these ideas are a blast!

Host A Halloween Movie Night

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There’s no better way to have a spooktacular time than with a Halloween movie night with your friends. You can go for a fun classic, like «Hocus Pocus,» or really scare the living daylights out of each other with a terror flick like «Halloween.»

Decorate Pumpkins

table of carved pumpkins from a girls' night in.

Pumpkin carving and painting isn’t just an activity reserved for little kids! You can have a girls’ night in making jack o’ lanterns. Turn it up a notch by making it a contest! You might be surprised at some of the hidden talents among your friends.

Mix Up Fall-Themed Drinks

a spiked pumpkin spice latte, perfect for a girls' night in.

No girls’ night in is truly complete without a little drink! You can make cocktails or mocktails that are fall-themed, like caramel apple-tinis and spiked pumpkin spice lattes. It’s the perfect way to sip back and settle in for the night.

Crafting

Students going back to school aren’t the only ones who can enjoy some crafting! Spend your next girls’ night in doing some crafts that are fall-themed, like decorations for Halloween or Thanksgiving. If you’re not sure what to make, a quick scroll through Pinterest or a stop to the local craft store can help you generate some autumnal ideas.

Have A Holiday TV Specials Night

One of the best things about Halloween and Thanksgiving is that tv series often have specials for these holidays. Make a list with your friends of all your favorite tv shows, and search if they have Halloween or Thanksgiving episodes. (Our picks are «The Office» and «Friends»). You’ll have a blast re-watching the classics that you’ve missed in a marathon night of TV.

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Fight Off Your Sinus Infection This Fall

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The changing of the weather doesn’t just mean falling leaves and sipping hot apple cider. It also means a wave of infections and sick days. Ugh! One of the most common illnesses that people get during the fall season is sinus infections. This inflammation of the nasal cavity can leave you feeling miserable, but it doesn’t have to! These at home remedies will help you fight off your sinus infection and have you feeling better in no time!

a woman sneezing wearing fall clothes.

What Causes A Sinus Infection?

Back to school (and work) after the summer holidays means back to being surrounded by a sea of germs. Whenever a bacteria or irritant gets in our sinuses, it can block the «drainage system» and lead to a build up of mucus. When this gets infected, it then leads to- you guessed it- a sinus infection.

woman sneezing with different home remedies for her sinus infection.

The most common symptoms people experience with a sinus infection include pressure around their face and nose, headaches, and major league congestion. If the infection is viral, taking some over-the-counter decongestants and pain relievers should do the trick in a week’s time. If it’s bacterial however, you might need to visit a doctor for an antibiotics prescription. Regardless of the cause, you are likely to have the same symptoms, all of which can be reduced and kicked in the bud with these at-home remedies.

Nasal Rinse

a neti pot designed for a sinus infection.

The quickest relief for your congestion and blockage is with a nasal rinse. The easiest way to do this is with a neti pot, which helps to get warm saline solution through your sinuses. You can use it over a sink or in a shower by pouring a saline solution through one nostril, and it will flow out the other.  This method helps to clear out mucus and any bacteria that could be growing in your nasal cavity.

Humidifier

a home humidifier for combatting a sinus infection.

We need moist air more than ever when we have a sinus infection. This is because the mucus can more easily flow and not get blocked, causing us to have trouble breathing. It can also increase your chances of getting more infections and bacteria trapped in your sinuses. Time to invest in a humidifier and kick that sinus infection goodbye!

Hot Shower

Woman's face under a shower head to clear out her sinuses.

Asides from helping you to relax and feel clean during your bacteria-filled days suffering a sinus infection, a hot shower can help you recover faster. The steam and water help to both keep your sinuses moist and eliminate mucus. You’re sure to feel a million times better after you step out of the shower with squeaky clean skin and the gratifying sensation of finally being able to breathe again!

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Washing Your Hair Daily Is Actually Bad For You

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We can do anything to have a shiny hair. Hair masks, the most expensive shampoos and conditioners, and even top finishing products. However, having a healthy, shiny hair may be requiring a little less effort.

Studies have shown that washing your hair frequently is not good. In fact, they recommend you to wash it once or twice a week. You can find out the why and how in this post.

Why does washing your hair daily damages it?

According to Carolyn Goh, MD, assistant clinical professor of medicine at UCLA, hair produces natural oil called sebum. It works as a moisturizer and a protection agent for the hair and skin. Excessive washing results in trapping this oil and causing product residue.

Nevertheless, some cases do require more »shampoo time». The same researcher agree that if you have very fine hair, or you sweat daily (obviously if you exercise) then you may need to wash your hair more frequently. Humidity also plays a role in making your hair look dirty quickly, and if you have an oily scalp, then you have to use more shampoo than regular hair types.

How can we replace using too much shampoo?

Even though dry shampoo is the easiest alternative, it’s not exactly the healthiest option. Immoderate use of it can lead to clogged pores, dandruff, and irritated skin. Happy Hair is a book published on amazon, and that offers simple replacement to shampoo, in order to have a healthier hair.

Eggs: Whisking a whole egg in a cup then pouring it on your hair is a magical treatment. The water should be cool (not hot nor cold) for you to get a clean, soft and shiny hair.

Clay: Known to be a natural remedy for both hair and skin. Applying clay with some boiling water on your hair, then rinsing it off has amazing results. Not only does it clean like shampoo, but it acts as a conditioner as well. Two in one!

Lemon: This fruit could come in handy and not only in the kitchen. Lemon is an anti-bacterial agent, so it can help you get rid of dandruff. Squeeze a whole lemon into a cup, then pour it on your hair before showering. Leave it for about 10 minutes, then rinse it off with templed water. Lemon can also help lighten the color of your hair for a blonder look.

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