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True Love Is Found Between The Ages 27-35

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Mathematician and Dr. Hannah Fry revealed a new interesting study. She found that people found true love between the ages 27-35. Furthermore, the author relies on mathematical based research, to precisely and accurately use numbers to answer questions. The author of author of the book The Mathematics of Love, shared her predictions, as well as tips for finding a long-lasting relationship and true love.

You Needed Those Failed Relationships

Hannah Fry’s research concluded that true love can be found starting 27 years old. According to her, that’s when you have reached the highest level of maturity, and learned from all your previous failed relationships.

In other words, anyone you date before that age (which is about 37% of your love life) is actually part of the process that will lead you to find your true love.

What’s The Right Age For You To Find True Love?

Furthermore, she insisted on the importance of distinguishing between true love, and a partner. Apparently, many people will have a partner even before reaching 27. However, according to her statistics, those who wait before committing, have a higher chance of ending up with their »one true love.»

»That means if you want to get married before 40, you won’t find your happy ending with the people you date from 15 to 27. Humans follow this strategy of rejecting their first lovers, without knowing it’s actually the best thing they can do for their love life » She explains.

Tips On Finding The Love Of Your Life

In addition, Hannah Fry shared some valuable advice with the single people out there during the MRS annual conference. Moreover, her list of tips include being yourself, knowing that beauty isn’t everything, and rejecting 37% of your first lovers. Because, these first love experiences improve your ability to observe, and allow you to distinguish the person who fits almost perfectly in your life.

She also suggested that a more open-minded approach would bear more fruit, in terms of avoiding to have a checklist and leaving more doors open instead of having specific criteria.

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4 Valentine’s Day Plans For All The Single Ladies

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Valentine’s Day is here, and some of us don’t have a lover (and not even close.) Nevertheless, this day is all about love, right? And love exists in all forms and shapes. you don’t need a significant other to celebrate how much you love your friends and family.

Moreover, if you happen to be living alone, or find all your friends busy celebrating with their lovers, no worries because you can still enjoy the day with your own marvelous company. Here are our suggestions for V-Day plans, to all the single ladies out there.

Cook Your Favorite Food

Enjoy your independence by making your favorite dish/food. In fact, not only would it keep you busy, you will also enjoy the process of preparing something you love. Although there is absolutely nothing wrong with being single, avoiding social media will make you less anxious.

Do your grocery shopping, and prepare something you love to eat. I mean, few things make us feel as good as indulging ourselves in eating what we love.

Have a Girls Night In

Invite your single friends, neighbors, cousins etc. Possibly bring a bottle of Champagne to toast your friendship and commitment to each other. You literally don’t have to feel lonely if you are surrounded by people you care about. Although we often associate Valentine’s Day with having a lover, but sometimes, our friends are the only lovers we need. Eat, drink, dance, watch a movie and laugh a lot.

Take Your Parents Out For Dinner

Many people often forget that our greatest blessing in life is our parents. If you don’t have a boyfriend, then take the opportunity of spending this day with your parents. As we grow up, we get so caught up in our lives, and forget to show our affection and gratitude to our parents.

Make a reservation at a nice place, and treat your parents to a fancy dinner. You have no idea how happy it would make them feel that you thought about spending the »love day» with them.

Have a Glass of Wine, And Watch a Movie

However, if you are not into going out, nor having people over, that’s fine too. Everyone has their own coping mechanism with feeling lonely typically on Valentine’s day. Frankly, sometimes it’s even better to take a break from the world, and spend some time with yourself.

You can absolutely get you some wine and pizza, put on you PJ’s and watch your favorite movie/tv show. In fact, we’ve just heard that PS: I love you is getting a sequel, so you can always rewatch it, as it always reminds us of the power of love.

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5 Science-Backed Signs That You Are Falling In Love

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Have you been wondering if you are falling in love with someone? Yeah, sure, love is such a beautiful, warm and fuzzy feeling. You get those butterflies every time you look at your partner, and you feel happy and safe in their arms. Although sometimes, we confuse infatuation or lust with love, most of the times, love catches us off guard.

So, if you are not exactly sure about how you feel, we prepared a list of indicators for you. Here are few signs, that you are falling in love, backed up by research.

Can’t Stop Staring

The first major sign that you are falling in love is definitely staring! If you catch yourself gazing at him involuntarily, then you are falling for him. Moreover, science says that when you unconsciously stare at something, it’s because you are fixated on it. Therefore, if you are often fixated on the same person, you may just be feeling something more than just a crush.

Feel Happy When They Are

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True love is about feeling happy for your significant other. If their happiness doesn’t make you feel goosebumps, then you are not in love. Actually, studies show that the happiness you feel when in love, compares to being high. Yes, you may not be on coke, but that dopamine level is almost as high. Sometimes, the best feeling is seeing the person you love smile.

Think About Them Often

Regardless wether you hangout often, or talk frequently. Every time you are falling asleep, your last though always runs to them. If you find yourself thinking about this person the whole time, then you are falling for them. Furthermore, falling in love is also related to making you stressed, and increasing your body’s levels of cortisol.

The Gross Things Don’t Bother You

This is one of the most obvious signs that you are falling in love with someone. It doesn’t bother you when they pick their nose, or leave the bathroom a bit smelly. Quite the opposite, you start seeing those »gross things» as part of why you are attracted to them.

You Feel Happier Around Them

Basically, even if you are happy, fulfilled and accomplished, you still feel the happiest with them. Although a deep connexion is not something you develop with everybody, if he makes you feel the happiest you felt all day, then he is a keeper and you are falling in love with him.

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Iconic Love Series to Rewatch On valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s day is approaching, and some of us are single and have no plans. But, no one said that you can’t have a date with yourself, and enjoy a marathon of some of the tv shows we love. As the »lovers day» is a chance to get extra-romantic with your significant other, it can also be a great opportunity to rewatch (or catch up) on these world class love series, as per ELLE Magazine. We have prepared for you a list of 4 iconic series to help us enjoy February 14th with some snacks and our own awesome company.

Jane The Virgin

What’s not to love about the plot of this show? Jane and Michael teach us about remaining strong, sticking together against all challenges, and that basically true love always wins. Jane who falls unexpectedly pregnant without having sexual intercourse with her fiancé, and they both just stand together through it all.

Gossip Girl

I bet that this was one of your favorite shows growing up. The upper east side always had its way into our hearts, and Gossip Girl took us into a journey we’d never forget. I mean, if you are single on Valentine’s day, nothing will make you feel better than realizing that things take time. Chuck and Blair had to wait years, and go through all types of struggles to be together. Serena dated all types of men, only to realize that her true love has been there all along. I mean, if you haven’t seen this show yet, you better prepare yourself because you will not be able to stop.

The Vampire Diaries

The Salvatore brothers represent everything a girl dreams of. Two hunks fall in love with the same girl. One of them is »the bad» guy and the other is »the good» one. However, few seasons into the show and you will start wondering »who is who?» TVD will be able to transmit all types of emotions to your heart.

New Girl

Finally, New Girl is all about love and friendship. The storyline of a girl moving in to live in an apartment with 3 guys. This show really showed us how important it is to fall in love with someone who knows you well. So, if you still don’t have a lover, maybe you should start looking for a best friend first!

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4 Clear Signs He is Emotionally Unavailable

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4 Clear Signs He is Emotionally Unavailable

The culture of fast dating is slowly, yet significantly shaping the world. Social media, dating sites and simply technology, created a dependence on proximity and targeted search. Consequently, finding »love» and a committed partner is becoming increasingly difficult. Sometimes, we end up falling for the wrong person, but other times, we just willingly ignore the warnings. Without further ado, here are 4 clear signs that he is emotionally unavailable.

You Know that He Wants To See Other People

Sometimes, you don’t even need to hear the words. When you get that intuition that he is seeing someone else, chances are rare that you are off. Therefore, if you are with a man who doesn’t believe in exclusivity, let alone monogamy, then maybe you should start asking questions. However, I cannot stress enough, the fact that people are not going to change until they really want to. There is nothing you can do to make them choose you, so move on!

He’s Indecisive

One point behind seeing other people, some men are emotionally unavailable through their indecisively. When someone still has to question how they feel towards you, or to what degree they are willing to sacrifice for the relationship, it’s because they were never really on board. It is terrifyingly hard to admit to ourselves that we are replaceable, yet should know enough not to settle for less than we deserve.

He Doesn’t Want To Think About His Feelings

This is a big NO NO when it comes to clear signs he is emotionally unavailable. In fact, if you see him avoid talking about his feelings, just run girl!

Seriously, psychologists say that Men who are uncomfortable with a certain emotion such as anger, frustration, or anything else, are likely also uncomfortable with emotion in general. Be careful!

Against Labeling the Relationship

You don’t always need a label for your relationship, but you definitely need to know where it is going. when you pop the important question, and he still says »I don’t know» or ‘‘we don’t have to know now», then you should seriously consider having »the talk.» In addition, men often avoid letting you know exactly how they feel, because they are not there yet. Believe me, there is nothing harder than walking with someone when you are both on separate paths.

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Dating: 5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

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Modern dating is hard. Technology has influenced our interactions and relationships, and became a big deal when it comes to dating. I mean, you meet a guy, you exchange Instagrams, then you go home and start getting to know the person through their posts.

Millennials give so much importance to social media in relationships. However, this dependence created an emotional analysis of signs. you ask yourself »Why was he online and didn’t reply? Why did he leave me on read? why are other girls liking their posts? etc…»

Nowadays, studies prove that marriage rates are plummeting, and part of that, is due to uncertainty about feelings. If you don’t know where you stand with a guy, that’s probably because he is not into you. Here are some signs to keep in mind.

Mixed Signals

If a guy sends you mixed signals about their feeling, then probably they don’t really want you. Several men confessed that when they are not sure about a girl, they try to keep sending her mixed signals until she finally walks away on her own…Be careful of this type of guys because they can keep you hanging for a long time. While they are enjoying their life, you are just sitting there wondering if they actually love you or not.

Love Bombing

This the complete opposite of the previous one. When a guy uses this technique, it makes you feel valued and special. They shower you with compliments, love, and affection. You feel like they really want to be dating you. Then, all of sudden, they are gone. You wonder where did you go wrong, but it’s really not you, it’s them. They enjoy seeing you need them, and becoming attached to them. You start thinking to yourself that this could be ‘love at first sight’ but, it almost never is. These guys are not willing to commit. Next!

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Avoids Defining the Relationship

When it comes to knowing what the two of you are, there is no better way than asking. However, if he shows little interest in knowing, or considers that it’s not important to label it, then chances are he is confused about you. If you are always wondering , then you need a reality check. A man who’s interested doesn’t leave you wondering. It’s as simple as that.

More Physical than Emotional

Physical attraction is very important in a relationship, but it’s not everything. If your guy is open about that but not his emotions, then that’s one big red flag. He is definitely not that into you if he doesn’t open up to you, share his feelings, and show interest in understanding yours. Moreover, a guy who likes you will let you in and will only hangout with you when it works for him.

He Doesn’t Make Effort

Finally, this is for me the most important sign. We often try to find excuses to why men don’t text us first. We say »Oh, he must-ve had a bad day.» Although that might be true in some cases, a man who cares about your won’t go a week without a text/call/message. So, if you are always the one making the first move, you should reconsider where you stand with that guy.

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